DJ and Nicole started as any love story does, love at first sight. Four years ago when I first saw DJ, my heart melted and I knew that he was the man I would spend the rest of my life with. Not many people experience the love that we shared and continue to share, but for those of you who have, know exactly what I am talking about. It is that, butterflies in your stomach, can't sleep, can't wait for the next phone call kind of love. It is that intense, suck you right in, know what you have kind of love you have feeling. It is amazing, and we had that and I know always will! We had our brief lapse of falling apart from each other, like I know so many do, but when we came back together it was just as we had left off, and even better! It was pure euphoria! I had never, and I am certain will never experience anything like it ever again! Our story continues as some do and some do not. I had two children from a previous marriage, but this was nothing to stop us because DJ loved and continues to love these children as if they were his own. Our family was almost complete, until the day I found out I was pregnant. That day it felt like the world stopped for a minute! We were away from each other when I found out, but yet seemed so close. It was one of the happiest moments of our life! Nine months goes by so slowly and so quickly at the same time. I remember the anticipation, the anxiousness and the nervousness all rolled into one the entire time. The day that Jaxon came into our lives will never be forgotten! I know for DJ it was the proudest moment of his life, to know that he had helped create such a beautiful, flawless son! I will never forget that that day, ever! When DJ asked me to be is his wife that was one of the happiest days of my life! Like I had said before, I knew that he DJ was the man I would spend the rest of my life with and having the day come for him to "officially" ask me was like a fairy tale. We were on vacation at the beach (our favorite spot) when he completely surprised me! He had my ring on a fishing line (being the amazing fisherman that he was) and told me that only the greatest things in life were caught on a fishing line and asked me if I would marry him. I don’t think that you could take the smile off of our faces that day and so many other days to follow if you tried. Our story continues with so many more amazing memories and laughs that will never ever leave me. DJ was so full of life and always made everyone who surrounded him feel the same way. He had the biggest heart and would do absolutely anything for anyone that he cared about. One tattoo that he had read “Family First” and this was his life motto. A great man does not come close to describe DJ; in fact I don’t think that there are words to fully describe him. If you knew DJ though, you know exactly what I mean. I know in my heart that even though DJ is no longer here with us physically he is and always will be in our hearts forever. Our story will remain in “to be continued” mode until the day that we meet again and have the chance to live in eternity together.
Nicole, it has been yrs since I have seen u!! I just wanted to say tht I am deeply sorry for ur loss, nobody can really ever relate to what another is going thru. This post had me in tears n it was so beautifully written,u r a very lucky lady to have experienced that kind of love. I know DJ will always b with u.. Ill b thinkin' of u!! God bless u n ur family!!
Thank you so much Lindsie for the kinds words! It has been a very long time since we have seen each other, but I am so glad that I can re-connect with so many old friends!
Necole you will never be without your true love for he is with jaxson, ur son will do or say something to remind you always, i too have loved and lost not once but twice i know the pain, believe me your beloved is with u and ur family. You will move forward in your time, its better to have loved than not to know love at all. May god continue to keep you and bless you and your children your angel is forever with you.
DJ and Nicole started as any love story does, love at first sight. Four years ago when I first saw DJ, my heart melted and I knew that he was the man I would spend the rest of my life with. Not many people experience the love that we shared and continue to share, but for those of you who have, know exactly what I am talking about. It is that, butterflies in your stomach, can't sleep, can't wait for the next phone call kind of love. It is that intense, suck you right in, know what you have kind of love you have feeling. It is amazing, and we had that and I know always will! We had our brief lapse of falling apart from each other, like I know so many do, but when we came back together it was just as we had left off, and even better! It was pure euphoria! I had never, and I am certain will never experience anything like it ever again!
ReplyDeleteOur story continues as some do and some do not. I had two children from a previous marriage, but this was nothing to stop us because DJ loved and continues to love these children as if they were his own. Our family was almost complete, until the day I found out I was pregnant. That day it felt like the world stopped for a minute! We were away from each other when I found out, but yet seemed so close. It was one of the happiest moments of our life! Nine months goes by so slowly and so quickly at the same time. I remember the anticipation, the anxiousness and the nervousness all rolled into one the entire time. The day that Jaxon came into our lives will never be forgotten! I know for DJ it was the proudest moment of his life, to know that he had helped create such a beautiful, flawless son! I will never forget that that day, ever!
When DJ asked me to be is his wife that was one of the happiest days of my life! Like I had said before, I knew that he DJ was the man I would spend the rest of my life with and having the day come for him to "officially" ask me was like a fairy tale. We were on vacation at the beach (our favorite spot) when he completely surprised me! He had my ring on a fishing line (being the amazing fisherman that he was) and told me that only the greatest things in life were caught on a fishing line and asked me if I would marry him. I don’t think that you could take the smile off of our faces that day and so many other days to follow if you tried.
Our story continues with so many more amazing memories and laughs that will never ever leave me. DJ was so full of life and always made everyone who surrounded him feel the same way. He had the biggest heart and would do absolutely anything for anyone that he cared about. One tattoo that he had read “Family First” and this was his life motto. A great man does not come close to describe DJ; in fact I don’t think that there are words to fully describe him. If you knew DJ though, you know exactly what I mean.
I know in my heart that even though DJ is no longer here with us physically he is and always will be in our hearts forever. Our story will remain in “to be continued” mode until the day that we meet again and have the chance to live in eternity together.
Nicole, it has been yrs since I have seen u!! I just wanted to say tht I am deeply sorry for ur loss, nobody can really ever relate to what another is going thru. This post had me in tears n it was so beautifully written,u r a very lucky lady to have experienced that kind of love. I know DJ will always b with u.. Ill b thinkin' of u!! God bless u n ur family!!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Lindsie for the kinds words! It has been a very long time since we have seen each other, but I am so glad that I can re-connect with so many old friends!
ReplyDeleteNecole you will never be without your true love for he is with jaxson, ur son will do or say something to remind you always, i too have loved and lost not once but twice i know the pain, believe me your beloved is with u and ur family. You will move forward in your time, its better to have loved than not to know love at all. May god continue to keep you and bless you and your children your angel is forever with you.
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